Monday, April 13, 2009

Frivilous lawsuit?

Contributed by Auggie: Proud member of the USGA (Underachievers Society of Golf Apprenticeship)

I’m thinking of suing golf. Negligent infliction of emotional distress, that should do it. I’m not sure who will actually pay for damages, but the lawyers are good at figuring out those details.

The idea came to me in an airport recently when I overheard (along with everyone else in terminal D) a young man on his cell phone weeping about his ex, and explaining his strategy to sue for emotional distress. It was eerie, his words had a haunting familiarity like he was describing my life – except, he wasn't describing my life at all. And then it struck me like a wayward tee shot, he was describing my relationship with golf. He talked about the extreme high points [check] followed by the depressing lows [check]. He spoke of the pain and suffering he has endured since the relationship began [check and check]. It was uncanny really. Why hadn’t I thought of this avenue before? Sue the wicked witch and move on with my life.

This relationship analogy is strangely accurate. My friends often ask “why do you stay with golf when it always brings you pain?” And I’ll reply “no, no, we’re just going through a rough patch that’s all, everything will work out fine”. I usually say this after a successful day. And just when I think our relationship is flourishing beyond my wildest dreams – WHACK! – “take that boy, get cute with me again and there's more of the same”. Golf slaps me around and embarrasses me in front of my friends. Next thing I know I'm shanking balls into people’s swimming pool, you know, the ones who thought a house on the golf course would be a lovely idea. And then I vow to end the miserable relationship, and to find a more benevolent companion like extreme Scottish hammer throwing. And I dream of spitefully donating my clubs to a corrosion research lab where they’ll meet their slow, grisly but well deserved death. But anyone who has been in a passionate relationship knows you can’t stay away. You just can’t. So I come back for more and sure enough, I’ll hole a shot from the green side bunker as if golf is saying to me “I didn’t mean to hurt you, I wasn’t myself, just give me another chance, I promise it won’t happen again”. And I believe it, because I want to believe it.

Oh, we’ve tried counseling. We even went to see a “Pro” as they call them. But of course golf was on her best behavior then. Casual observers would watch us and think “oh, what a wonderful relationship those two have”. And the pro convinces me there is nothing wrong with the relationship and perhaps I just need to be more understanding and give it some time. So there you have it - it’s really my fault.

So I bought some new clubs this year. There’s nothing like a shiny new gift to add spark to a relationship and regain the old magic. I better withdraw that lawsuit idea - she would never take me back if I pulled a stunt like that.


  1. Jeff Ryer4/14/2009

    I went to my golf course today but it was closed - the windmill was broken, oh well. So not wanting to waste a trip to the old links, I went to the golf pro (he was a 13 year old kid wearing an apron) behind the counter and asked if the course had a USGA machine where i could enter my past scores. He looked at me kind of funny and replied " no USGA machine, but we got a popcorn machine". I ordered an orange soda and a large corn, I LOVE golf.

  2. Anonymous4/14/2009

    there's always a bit of hope. No one has the standard deviation I have, the highest of the highs...rounds of 9 in the 30' the lowest of the lows...rounds in the 60s due a bout of the shanks that occurs every couple of years since I was 19. these scores could be a week apart. I vow at the low points that i will never play again, only to be laughed at by my children "sure Dad" even though I am being perfectly honest (at the time). But the b%^&%$ lures me back with promises of a better time, and for a while, sometimes a full year, we get along marvelously, but she'll pull out the shanks once again, usually when I start to brag about my accomplishments. JD..